what makes a good father??

Children seem to need more from thier parents in today's increasingly engineered society. Our children need to be able to compete, in all things in the global world. They also need to be really happy with "thier father in the house". If thier biological father seems to be a good protector and provider, is that enough to "satisfy your wants, needs, and desires", for a father? What else can a man do within himself, to prepare himself for entry into becoming your mate, and father to your children. Why are some women never satisfied with her choice in a man? Having multiple children, with multiple fathers is a serious life issue. With an obvious generational laxity in parenting skills, raising children over the last few decades seems to have been a major "bust". Single parent households has escalated to an epidemic level and the biological father has been eradicated from the home. Some children have not had the "continuity" of having a "real mature father" in the home. Some women seem to think that a "father figure" is the cure. This fallacy is not the case, as the behavior of our children has shown. A substitute "dad", for the child,..is a substitute dad offered by "MOM"! That man is a substitute dad that you chose for your child, with "you" in mind, and not necessarily the child as a priority. What can the biological father do differently to maintain the "nuclear family". We need some real women to comment on this subject and help themselves, to help men understand,..."BETTER".